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Monday, May 28, 2007 

Memorial Day Parade

We went to the local Memorial Day Parade for the 2nd year now (maybe a new tradition in the making?). Only 25 minutes in length, it's a short but fun parade. Last year, Austen was about 8 months old and not walking so she watched from her stroller. This year, she was on the front lines with Mama and Dada, sitting on the curb, walking around and lounging in her chair. She eagerly accepted a little flag and a lollipop and enjoyed most of the parade; Austen didn't care much for the people shooting their loud rifles (with blanks, of course).

Here's Mama and Austen with their decorated, styling crocs.


Austen is mesmerized by the people marching in the parade but she's not sure if she really likes it yet.




After sitting with Dada, Austen decided she'd rather sit in her little lawn chair (another thoughtful purchase by Mama).




The horse, fire trucks and brownie girl troops were among Austen's favorites to watch.






Mama's favorite was the marching bagpipe players.


Tuesday, May 22, 2007 

Dada's trip to Tokyo

Dada had to go away for a week-long business trip to Tokyo. In preparation, he explained the how he would be traveling using nothing more than chalk and a driveway. Except for the incorrectly showing the plane's flight path, it was fairly accurate.



While Dada was away, Grandma Mindy stayed over to help Mama watch Austen. There were lots of fun activities including bubbles, going to the park, eating out at favorite restaurants and some all out playing-till-you-drop activities.







Here's a video of Austen talking to Dada, although she didn't seem to be in her normal gabby phone mood.


Monday, May 21, 2007 

Sweetest, cuddliest little girl!



Mama comments a lot about Austen's willfulness and temper but that's only because Mama has a tendency to focus on the things that need work. The truth is that when Austen's in a good mood, she's the most cuddly, smily child Mama has ever experienced. Tonight, as Mama held her before bed, Austen smiled and cosied her head up against Mama's arm. She also sang some of Old Macdonald for Mama -- one of her current favorites. Today, Mama got several excited greetings of "Mama! Mama!" accompanied by bursting smiles.


Saturday, May 19, 2007 

Visiting Emma and Erin ("baby") and Uncle Mark ("Ul-mo") and Aunt Jen

Uncle Mark & Auntie Jen prepared an elaborate meal using their brand new grill. It was quite a spread with beef, honey-glazed chicken wings, veggies, zucchini pie, cookies and super cupcakes, compliments of Emma's organic sprinkles. Yum.

Austen really liked spending time with Emma as she followed her around. Austen now points to pictures & videos and identifies Emma by name although Austen's still working on identifying Erin by name. For now, she refers to Erin as "baby."

Erin enjoyed playing with her Mama's plants and she didn't like it when Austen took over her toys or her swing. Austen is still working hard on sharing, too.



Emma likes throwing balls out of the ball pit while Dada tosses them back in.


We know everyone loves bubbles but how about Super bubbles! Thanks to Mama's trip to Target, the girls enjoyed to oversized bubbles. They looked so good that Emma even tried tasting the bubbles.


Emma spins as she unleashes a super long bubble.


Austen loves to go on all the swings she sees so she could not resist this one either.


Erin enjoyed playing with her sand box and was also enjoying the huge bubbles.


Austen played with the tow mower while Emma enjoyed another new toy Mama brought along that flew into the air and had blinking lights. At one point, it flew into the neighbors yard but Dada quickly retrieved it.



Friday, May 18, 2007 

Drew's 2nd Birthday Party

Austen had fun at Drew's birthday party. She played with all her friend and really liked the big ride-on train.



One minute you're rolling around on the floor playing with Aaron...



...the next minute...


...and then you get a lecture from Olga (Aaron's Mama).


 

Drew's 2nd Birthday Party

Austen had fun at Drew's birthday party. She played with all her friend and really liked the big ride-on train.



One minute you're rolling around on the floor playing with Aaron...



...the next minute...


And then you get a lecture from Olga (Aaron's Mama).


 

Drew's 2nd Birthday Party

Austen had fun at Drew's birthday party. She played with all her friend and really liked the big ride-on train.



One minute you're rolling around on the floor playing with Aaron...



...the next minute, pow!


And then you get a lecture from Olga (Aaron's Mama).


Tuesday, May 15, 2007 

Hangin' with Chacha

Chacha visited today to play with Austen. Austen always gets really excited to see Chacha and often looks for him on the days when he's not visiting.
Here's Austen hanging around...with Chacha's help.




Sunday, May 13, 2007 

Something unexpected about Mommyhood ...

is that you often end the day feeling like, "Whew, I just got by," like you were barely able to pass the exam and did so only by the skin of your teeth.

For Mother's Day, Mama watched Austen play at the park with Dada -- Austen was in an ignore-Mommy mood. But Mama also showed Austen that girls can do anything. Never having done woodworking before, Mama worked on coping joints for crown molding, using saw and dremmel ... yes, on Mother's Day! The upstairs library is almost finished.

Mama also got to eat her favorite food (Mr. Pi's Sushi) and drink her favorite drink (Iced Green Tea Latte at Starbucks).

Uncle Mark sent an e-mail suggesting that Jen should get twice as many Mother's Day gifts because she has two kids, instead of just one like Mama and Holly. Unfortunately, Mama got zero gifts and by the Multiplication Property of Zero, two times zero is still zero. Oh well, hopefully Emma and Erin came up with some good gifts for Auntie Jen. Auntie Lu is still waiting for her birthday cards from Emma and Erin and Morgan. When is Auntie's Day?

In the evening, Mother's Day took a turn of the worse. Austen fell and bumped her head -- there was bleeding and a bump on her scalp. Then, at bedtime, Austen ran away from Mommy. Fighting and flailing, she ran screaming down the hall to Dada. Mommy was very hurt and got sort of mad at Austen. Luckily, they made up later and exchanged a bunch of kisses.

Life is always a struggle, especially with all the illness and loss we experience, but Mama is pleased with how strong, athletic, assertive, independent, unique and smart Austen is and wouldn't trade her for a more docile child. Austen will never be a child-care provider's easy payday, but she's going to become an interesting woman. What's that quote? "Well-behaved women never make history."


Friday, May 11, 2007 

Playing on Morgan's Swingset

During her Easter visit, Austen got to play on Morgan's swing set. The climbed up to the top, went down the slide, swang on the swings, ran around and played with pug.








 

Austen and Morgan go on an Easter Egg Hunt.


 

Austen Sorta Likes MyGym








 

It's Hard to Take Family Photos These Days


 

Sweet Jesus!

Mama had been having a very difficult week with Austen. Her sleepy and cranky little girl has refused to nap, and screamed and bucked wildly when Mama tried to get her to sleep in her swing. Mama was ready to resign her position as Mommy, or at least take a sabbatical. Luckily, there seemed to be a breakthrough today.

After an unsuccessful attempt at napping in the swing, Mama waited an hour and then cajoled a sleepy Austen into her bedroom. After a diapey change, Mama asked Austen if she wanted to do sleepies in the swing or the crib. Austen pointed and said "crib." Amazingly, as soon as Mama put Austen into her crib (with her bottle of water) she settled down and drifted off to sleep. Unbelievable! Austen never naps in her crib. For her entire life, she's napped in her Fisher Price swing. In the past when Mama or Dada have tried to put her in the crib, she's only jumped around and yelled a lot. Maybe all the fussies this week were a result of Austen being ready to nap in the crib -- after all, the little swing has been getting pretty confining for 32" Austen.

Mama and Dada always said that Austen would make the decision to start napping in her crib. When it comes to fundamentals, she just can't be forced to do something. It's like forcing a scared cat to retract her claws and lie still. You have to wait for her to make the change of her own volition. Hopefully, this will turn into a permanent change. When traveling, it's difficult to cart the swing around and it's weight limit has been surpassed.

Mama had decided she will not force Austen to give up her bottle. Why fight a losing battle? Austen is too strong willed to force her to do something she's dead set against. Mama will just wait until Austen decides to give it up. Of course, Mama herself has still not given up her security blanket from infancy. Don't ask -- it's embarrassing.


Thursday, May 10, 2007 

Mother's Day Play Date at Riley's







Austen loves to hang out with Riley. She can't quite say her name but manages to blurt out Ri'ey. It's no wonder Austen is called fiesty or maybe she's just very focused on block building. Riley is so helpful and tolerant.


 

Twenty-Month Update: Sentences and Singing

Austen's linguistic skills continue to improve at an escalated pace. She'll try to say almost any word. Point to something and say its name and Austen will do the same. She also regularly forms simple sentences by combining words: "Bye Bye, Chacha!" "Bye Bye, babies." "This is Mama's cup." "Scout! Get down." "Here you go." "There she is!" "More cheese, please!"

Austen also has started using names when identifying her family & friends. In addition to Chacha, she now calls Grandpa "Pa." She hasn't figured out what to call Grandma yet; when you tell her it's Grandma, she repeats "Mama?" and looks around for Mama. She's said "Jan" for Auntie Janet, some version of Heather for Auntie Heather and "Mor'an" for Morgan, although she needs to practice for a while before it sticks. She's also excited to see her good friends Mia, Riley and Aaron and usually greets them with "Hi Mia," "Hi Ri'ey" and "Hi 'Run," respectively. She's working on learning all her friends names.

For about two to three weeks, Austen has been drinking a lot of water throughout the night, waking up several times. It started off with just a little bit but at its peak, she drank almost 20 ounces in the middle of the night, often soaking her diapers, PJs and sometimes the bed sheet. Waking up two to four times each night, Dada quickly became pooped out. Fortunately, we were able to get her switched back to drinking more during the day and not the night!

In addition to making the sounds of various animals, Austen now identifies the animals by name. "Cow. Moo, mooo." She uses this skill to sing the Old McDonald song. She sings the ee-i-ee-i-oo chorus, adds the animal (...and on his farm he had some ... "Ducks!") and then repeatedly makes the animal's sound. She's content to sing the song on her own or along with someone. Sometimes, you can hear her singing it as she's going to bed or early in the morning before Mama or Dada tend to her.

Austen has started throwing some tantrums, so Mama and Dada try to only say no to her when absolutely necessary. She has a strong desire to feel in control. Time Outs work when Austen swings at the cats or stands on chairs, but Dada and the Rodey family aren't very good at discipline so there isn't a lot of consistency at this point. They still insist "She's just a baby." Mama knows she's a clever little whipper-snapper, who will take advantage of pushovers without stopping to bat an eyelash.

In the mornings, Austen watches videos (Baby Einstein and the Wiggles) while eating waffles, yogurt, fruit and cheese. For lunch, she usually has mac and cheese, or chicken and fruit ... with chocolate milk. She also enjoys a nice chicken burrito. For snacks, she likes cheese crackers, raisins, crispy rice bars (a.k.a. boo-yeah bars), and fruit bars. For dinner, she eats some sort of meat, lots of fruit, rice or bread, and string beans or peas or edemame. She's a big fruit eater, while Mama sometimes struggles to get her to eat high-protein foods.

At the very end of the month, Austen started napping in her crib, giving up her well-used swing. Most days she only takes one nap but it happens early, around 11:30. By 5pm, she's often a bit fussy. Austen and Mama often miss classes or play dates because of her lunchtime napping, and Mama wishes her nap would move to around 1pm if she's only to have one a day.

Mama has recently commented a lot on how Austen seems to have some sort of innate fascination with farm animals. Is it in her blood? If so, it skipped a generation because Mama wasn't crazy about living on a farm. Austen is fascinated by singing and dancing and animated behavior. She's even imitating it now. Mama sees a possible future for her on Broadway. At the very least, Austen and Mama will enjoy many trips to Manhattan to see shows.


Tuesday, May 08, 2007 

Mommy Loser

There are days Mama feels like a failure because she can't get Austen to nap or sleep, although it's clear she's tired and/or hungry. Much yelling (on Austen's part) and frustration are involved. Today, Mama and Austen missed out on a birthday playdate. Major bummer.

In college, Mama and her friends called each other by "Loser" nicknames ("Meiwah Loser," "Cinda Loser," etc.) in a benevolent effort to take the pressure off when it came to grades and academic success. "Might as well forget about getting an A!" Maybe Mama will start calling herself "Mommy Loser."


Monday, May 07, 2007 

"Star"-bucks

Mama and Austen visited Starbucks today, as they frequently do. Mama loves her "special drinks": Green Tea Latte. Austen also enjoys the apple & cheese snacks. While eating at the table, Mama gave Austen a small, empty starbucks cup to play with. Austen studied the cup carefully, saying "Cup" several times, and then started repeating the word "Star" as in "Starbucks." Austen recognizes pictures of stars but there was no picture on the cup. Just the word! She must have seen the word enough times in books and videos to recognize it. Or else this was an incredible coincidence.


Sunday, May 06, 2007 

At the park

Austen always loves park visits and especially the parks that have kids play areas including slides, walkways and older kids.





Here's Dada up in a tree showing off his climbing skills.


Dada got tired and tried to convince Austen to lie down with him. It worked by baiting Austen with new shoes, bought by Auntie Heather earlier in the day, but only for a few short minutes.


 

Auntie Heather's visit

Auntie Heather visited Austen this weekend. We spent the time doing lots of activities, even though Austen was not on her best behavior.

On Satruday afternoon, we went to a birthday party at Gymboree. Austen hasn't been to gymboree in a while (although she takes an art class there) but immediately recognized the layout & toys. She quickly went to work by climbing the slides and the oversized shapes; she also rocked on the wooden horse. After some play time, everyone went up to eat some pizza. Austen never ate pizza before and previous attempts all failed. At first, Austen pushed away the pizza and ate only the crust but after Dada took a bite, Austen decided she'ld try it. She loved it! In a few minutes, her slice was gone and the last few bites went in all at once.

Afterwards, we played outside, drawing with chalk on the driveway and enjoying the pleasent weather. Austen became fussy so Auntie Heather & Mama gave her a bubble bath while Dada picked up some Afghan food. We all ate together, the grown-ups enjoyed had some alchohol (it was Cinco de Mayo, afterall!) and after Austen went to bed, we watched a movie (Dada & Auntie Heather fell asleep on the sofa but Mama enjoyed the movie).

On Sunday, we went shopping in Westfield. We stopped at a shoe store, where Austen was happy to let the sales person (aka "nose") put shoes on her feet. Austen also enjoyed looking at the older kids. She walked up and stared at two older boys, who suddenly became shy and unsure of what they should do. They tried walking away but Austen just followed them. Afterwards, we ate Mexican food at Tinga, a favorite of Mama and Austen's. Then, we wandered to another store, which was supposed to be closed but just opened as some of us were standing in front admiring the shoes.

We wrapped up the excursion by shopping at a nearby Trader Joe's, where Austen fell asleep in her stroller, which she never does. She skipped her morning nap and was really tired but she slept for only 10 minutes and woke up in time to say goodbye to Auntie Heather, in her typical lovable manner.


Friday, May 04, 2007 

Smiling in Leopard Print


Wednesday, May 02, 2007 

"Bu Bye, Jan!"

Auntie Janets stopped by for a short visit -- she'd been traveling up and down the East Coast on a birthday tour. After Austen woke from her nap, we took the scenic route to Westfield and had lunch at Tinga. Janet agreed that their Mexican food is very yummy, and the place was decked out for Cinco de Mayo. Austen got her own chicken burrito with spinach tortilla and ate whole-heartedly. After, Mommy, Auntie Janet and Austen went to My Gym where Austen showed off her jumping skills and burried herself in the ball pit.

Auntie Janet was impressed with all the talking Austen's doing. "More!" "Yea!" "Hi, baby!" "Hi, boy!" "Bye Bye, baby!" "'Cado" meaning avocado. "Car!" "'Eo" meaning video. She's a chatty little girl and was on her best behavior today.


Tuesday, May 01, 2007 

Chacha picks appropriate T-shirts for Austen